“Is it too early to message them again?” - now an answerable question

Ask the assistant about any contact and it answers from what actually happened: when you last emailed, when they last replied, when anyone last spoke to them, and how many messages have gone unanswered. The answer is the same every time you ask it. It’s worked out from the record’s history rather than judged in the moment - an assistant that says four days is fine on Monday and too soon on Thursday isn’t advice, it’s a coin toss. And it knows when to tell you to stop. The suggested gap widens with each unanswered message - a few days, then a week, then a fortnight - and after four with no reply it says so plainly: another one is more likely to cost you the relationship than win an answer. Most bad outreach isn’t badly written, it’s the fifth one. If they’ve unsubscribed or bounced, that’s a flat no regardless of timing. If they replied after your last message, it just says the ball’s in your court.